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how are you feeling today, sweetheart?
i feel anxious
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i can't sleep at night
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i feel like i don't belong
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i need to calm down
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i hurt myself
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i'm sad & need cheer up
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i'm stressed & need relief
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i'm overwhelmed
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how to start care
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fun hobbies
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social media health
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mental health decline
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i feel scared, in panic
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i cry a lot
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procrastination
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feeling paranoic
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low self-esteem
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phone all day
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improve eating habits
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start working out
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start being grateful
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scared to leave house
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personal hygiene
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asking for help
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i want to be kinder
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little achievements
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i'm on my period
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toxic relationships
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healthier habits
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how to relieve anxiety:
use calming breathing exercises
move your body! try running, walking, or yoga.
lay on the floor with your legs up against a wall in an L shape.
rub
vicks vaporub
under your nose to pull focus back to your body.
try the
butterfly hug
: cross arms and tap shoulders rhythmically.
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insomnia:
seek help from a doctor if it is constant.
create a schedule: sleep at the same time every day.
drink valerian root or chamomile tea.
make your bedroom dark and quiet.
stop actively trying to sleep; focus only on relaxing.
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about belonging:
you belong here; you were born for a reason.
don't try to fit in before knowing your own values.
message a trusted friend or talk to a pet.
limit social media to avoid unhealthy comparison.
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to help you calm down:
Splash cold water on your face to trigger the mammalian dive reflex.
Listen to 8D audio or white noise to drown out racing thoughts.
Focus on the weight of your feet touching the floor.
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self-harming:
Hold an ice cube until it melts.
Draw on your skin with red washable markers.
Rip up paper or scream into a pillow.
Please call a crisis line; you are not alone.
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to comfort you:
Watch a comfort movie or cartoon from your childhood.
Put on clean, fresh socks and pajamas.
Remember that
feelings are not facts
; they will pass.
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how to find relief:
Write a "brain dump" list of everything worrying you.
Go for a 10-minute walk without your phone.
Practice progressive muscle relaxation.
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when you're overwhelmed:
Choose
one
tiny task and ignore everything else.
Ask for help with a chore or errand.
Close your eyes and count 10 slow breaths.
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taking care of yourself:
Drink a glass of water right now.
Eat a small, nourishing snack.
Treat yourself with the same kindness you'd give a small child.
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fun hobbies:
Try pixel art, scrapbooking, or knitting.
Start a small indoor herb garden.
Learn simple origami or paper folding.
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social media health:
Set limits on your phone settings (Usage Time).
Unfollow any account that makes you feel bad.
Don't check your phone for the first 30 mins of the day.
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mental health decline:
Acknowledge that you aren't feeling okay.
Schedule an appointment with a professional if possible.
Prioritize sleep and basic nutrition above all else.
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when you're in panic:
Use the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method.
Breathe into your belly, not your chest.
Remind yourself:
"I have survived this before."
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dealing with heavy emotions:
Let the tears come; it is a physical release of stress.
Place a cool damp cloth over your eyes afterward.
Hug a stuffed animal or a soft pillow.
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to stop procrastinating:
Use the "2-Minute Rule": If it takes < 2 mins, do it now.
Work in intervals (25 mins work, 5 mins rest).
Forgive yourself for the time already lost.
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dealing with paranoia:
Ground yourself by touching something cold or hard.
Reality-check your thoughts with a trusted friend.
Avoid caffeine which can increase heart rate.
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low self-esteem:
Stop negative self-talk as soon as you catch it.
Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and cute.
Make a list of things you have achieved.
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high screen-time:
Turn your phone screen to "Grayscale" mode.
Find a hobby that uses your hands.
Leave your phone in a different room while you sleep.
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better eating habits:
Focus on adding "good" things rather than just restricting.
Eat slowly and enjoy the flavors of your food.
Stay hydrated throughout the day.
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working out for the first time:
Start with just 5 minutes of movement.
Find an activity you enjoy, like dancing.
Don't compare your "Day 1" to someone else's "Year 3."
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being more grateful:
Write down 3 tiny things you liked today.
Thank your body for keeping you alive.
Notice the beauty in small things.
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scared of going out:
Start by just opening a window for fresh air.
Walk to the end of your street and back.
Take a "safe person" with you.
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personal hygiene:
If a shower is too much, just use a washcloth.
Brush your hair gently—it's self-massage.
Cleaning just your face can make you feel better.
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how to seek help:
You don't have to do this alone. Reach out to a professional.
Text a helpline if talking feels too scary.
Be honest about how you are feeling.
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be a kinder person:
Practice kindness toward yourself first.
Offer a small compliment to someone today.
Think before you speak; is it helpful or kind?
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little achievements:
Waking up is an achievement.
Drinking water is an achievement.
Being kind to yourself is the biggest achievement.
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when you're on your period:
Use a heating pad for cramps.
Eat iron-rich foods and stay hydrated.
Rest as much as your body asks you to.
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toxic relationships:
Protect your peace; you don't owe anyone your energy.
Mute accounts that make you feel drained.
Surround yourself with people who uplift you.
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adopting healthier habits:
Pick one small habit to change at a time.
Be consistent rather than perfect.
Reward yourself for sticking to your goals.
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social media health:
- Set limits on your phone settings (Usage Time).
- Unfollow any account that makes you feel bad.
- Don't check your phone for the first 30 mins of the day.
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